In almost all cases of conflicts between two persons in any relationship is disagreement in regard to their thoughts ,values and ideology. It is quite natural too , being exposed to different cultures and cohorts apart from genetic differences in the case of marital relationships. Inspite of egalitarian insistence in the modern society there is huge differences in nurturing patterns of males and females right from birth in our so called modern society. However , knowing this grassroot differences two gender groups involve themselves in marital relationships. Then the basic question arises why there is conflicts between the two persons which deteriorates quality of supposed to be loving relationship, so many times ending into frustrating breakups? In Psychology it has been assessed that divorce leads to highest level of stress in the couple.
Looking all these scenarios , being a positive psychologist , I strongly believe that the couples in conflicts should prone themselves to search points of agreement inspite of having differences in thoughts,values and ideology. Without doubt, they will find positive rays of loving optimism which will expose them to opportunities for togetherness.
So,TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of searching points of agreement whenever you find differences in thoughts, values, and ideology. I am sure you will cherish blissful relationships in your whole life.
Enjoy days always ahead in true love for resolving differences by searching points of agreement in all your relationships.
5th August, 2023 Dr. Ajawani's Psychologist Happiness Clinic
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