Its my fundamental belief that wise advice given to people who have no capacity to receive or imbibe is of no use at all. Specially in marital counselling I never prefer to have session with the partner who is not willing to take the session inspite of repeated requests from another partner as I very well know it will be a waste of my and his/her time and money too. The same logic stands true in other counsellings also for example, drug and alcohol abuse, adolescent's behaviour issues etc..
The Nature provides us a wonderful example of this phenomenon. A bamboo does not become fragrant even though it lives with sandalwood trees.
Its of much worth for we all also to understand that we humans so many times face some problems for which we feel handicapped or quite stressed, then its always better to seek wise advise from any expert. We shall be at the state mental readiness to be heartily open for advises specially when we find that our all efforts prove futile. There is no fun letting onself suffer in the absence of wise advise. The whole science of counseling psychology is based on this principle.
So TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of seeking state of wisdom through any wise person. At the same time also remember that you need not to deliver even genuine advise to the person who is not at all ready to receive your wise advise.
Enjoy days always ahead in true love for seeking advise when there is a true need for it.
18th, April 2023 Dr. Ajawani's Psychologist HAPPINESS CLINIC
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