There is one Hindi quote about which we have been taught by elders ,teachers ,and books since our childhood and that is : "NEKI KAR DARIYA ME DAL" and "KISI KE AHESAN KO KABHI MAT BHULO". Meaning that "Always give without remembering and always receive without forgetting." This English quote is mentioned in the book authored By Mr. Brian Tracy. I thankfully express my deep gratitude to both the sources for providing me the base theme of my today's post.
However, the irony is that a lot number of people do just opposite to this vital principle of human engineering, that is, they develop "ego" and never let go the chance to remind the beneficiary person about their" GIVING " behaviour to him / her and forcing the person to keep oneself reminded that he/ she owe something to them .Psychologically it is a perverted way of reminding. It is always better to forget what we have given . I am sure it will rarely happen that the beneficiary perso will ever forget it. This way both the basic principles of nurturing good relationships will spontaneously be maintained in our behavior. This will pave way the establishment of a prosocial society with everyone as the certain beneficiary as we are nothing without each other .This is the beauty of prosocial relationships, and a true need of the present time in our socio -political scenario.
So TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of divine principle of forgetting after giving and always remembering after receiving. I am sure you will find yourself as the first beneficiary in your prosocial society.
Enjoy days always ahead in pursuance of divine principle of making your society a prosocial one.
29th October, 2023 Dr.Ajawani's Happiness Clinic
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