A few days before I had written about enhancing oneself when feel insulted. A curious reader wanted me to explore this concept with some concrete examples.A common observation of people around us is that two or more people indulged in hot arguments raise their voices to dominant others which only provoke others to raise their voices even more. However, everyone of us know that this raise in voices only jeopardize the situation leading to hate speech and violent behaviour. The crux is that none of the two persons or groups ever get opportunity to express one's intentions in fruitful and acceptable manner. This is very common in family scenario where in husband and wife or parent and child do involve in such type of toxic behaviour leading to cognitive dissonance and bitterness in relationship.
Here is one concrete solution :"NEVER RAISE YOUR VOICE TO FORCE OTHERS TO LISTEN TO YOU. RATHER ENHANCE YOURSELF TO THE EXTENT THAT OTHERS WAIT TO LISTEN TO YOU, THAT TOO WITH GREAT HEARTY APPRECIATION AND RESPECT FOR YOU." This will also strengthen the social- emotional bonding between the two persons/groups.
So TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of enhancing yourself with calm and composed mannerism while interacting with others.
Enjoy days always ahead in pursuance of the path of self- enhancement.
18th October, 2023 Dr.Ajawani's Happiness Clinic
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