Today is International Family Day. I don't know who got this in one's mind to celebrate this day of family. But the fact is that we just can't dream of any individual's existence on this earth without having a family. Change is a law of the Nature, so we find changes in the patterns of family in due course of time. Once I saw a video of Mrs. Sudha Murty, a true legend of India in my view. In the video she tried to explain about fallacies and apprehensions we all have towards young generation. She very truly said that her parents too used to talk about young generation like we now talk about our young generation. She emphasized that we all shall not take stress of it as it is governed by the law of Nature.
However, if we talk about family, most of us feel that there has been dramatic changes in family system which is continuously shrinking to a level of nano family. As a psychologist, I strongly believe that none of changing pattern of family is deprived of goodness. None is only good and similarly none is only bad.
What I want to emphasize, specially today, is that any family is a cluster of relationships. We all only need to conserve unconditional love and faith within these relationships. The distrust, which is an illusory state of mind in most of the cases, breaks the relationships and we blame the family system. In contrast, the love factor attracts even the strangers to be a part of the family. Its not a size or type of the family but the love and trust factors actually make the difference.
So TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of expressing your true love for and unconditional trust on each other. I am sure you will enjoy loving familyhood with own family members and even with strangers.
Enjoy days always ahead in true familyhood with your unconditional love and trust.
HAPPY INTERNATIONAL FAMILY DAY
15th May, 2023 Dr. Ajawani's Psychologist HAPPINESS CLINIC
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