In my so many posts I have talked about vital force in words spoken during communication with self and others too. People suffer from inferiority complex due to self-derogatory words used for oneself. The examples are : "I can't do this", I can't control myself. "," Its too difficult for me", "I am so unlucky." etc.. Similarly, as I said yesterday also, the words spoken in an aggressive tone always lead to increase in unrepairable socio-emotional bonding, or broken relationships. Always remember that our each spoken world has a flavor , hence it is advisable to taste it first by ourselves before serving to others. It will prevent us from speaking any toxic word to others and thus help ourselves to be in strong socio-emotional bonding with others.
One Hindi poet has rightly said that, "Na harte hain wakt se, na jitate hain wakt se.. Safal wahi hote hain jo sikhte hain wakt se." Here I want to emphasize that any undesirable consequences out of our wrong choices of words spoken in our communications, are opportunities to understand and learn with time that those words shall never be used in self-talk are talks with others.
So TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of tasting the flavor of your words firstly by yourself before serving them to self or others too. I am sure each time you will learn to serve better and sweet words in your all communication.
Enjoy days always ahead in true love for using rightly sweet words in your all communications.
26th April, 2023 Dr. Ajawani's Psychologist HAPPINESS CLINIC
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