There is an interesting fact about human's linguistic development. And that is ,it takes around two years to learn to speak but it takes lifetime to learn what not to speak. It is really irony in human's life that if we can count the time we spend in talking absurdly while just gossiping, in giving lame excuses ,in criticizing others , demining others, back biting , in egoistic self - adoration, negative self- talk ,under negative emotions like anger, jealousy , hatred ,fear , anxiety , pain etc. , shockingly we will learn that more than ninty percent of our life-time is just spent in waste . One thing we all shall remember this bitter fact of our linguistic behaviour and must try to inhance the rest of ten percent time to the highest level possible for us in future .This will give a true meaning to our life which is called MOKSHA - a state of divine knowledge .
One more psycho- linguistic aspect is that the words don't have teeth,but they can bite to bleed the mind, and if they bite then it's very hard rather impossible to heal the bleeding wound. Hence we shall invest our blessed linguistic skill into the right cause with all positivity and with positive emotion only. Offcourse, we are humans and negative emotions are part of our life ,hence at that time we shall use another mode of communication and that is SILENCE that too in the process of self- relaxation.
So TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of nurturing the fruitfully positive linguistic skill . I am sure you will cherish a blissful life with blessed relationships.
Enjoy days always ahead in true love for positive and meaningful linguistic behaviour.
28th October, 2023 Dr.Ajawani's Happiness Clinic
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