The word pain is probably one of the most popularly used in conversation, thought process , literature and mass media . Physical pain is off course well reasoned in medical science however we also talk about the state of pseudo pain where the cause is not physical but purely psychological. This shows that pain is a matter of choice. One may not complaint about one's pain in spite of its high intensity and on the other hand one may suffer pain very critically in spite of no evident reasons.
Today I am tempted to write about this choiceful behaviour after listening one client's mental grief(pain) to the extent of ending one's life. The solution of his problem is complicated due to long-lasting unhealthy family dynamics. However, every problem has an appropriate solution and so here in this case also.There is a need of transformation of family dynamics through proper discipline. Here I meant every one in the family shall be committed religiously to pay one's responsibility as a true soldier. This again requires training of mind since early childhood.
There is a psychological fact that a person can either experience the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. Being the part of the Nature we humans must adopt and happily bear the pain of discipline instead of suffering later on more intense pain as I have described in the case above.
So , TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of adopting positive attitude of accepting discipline though you may feel little pain of discomfort. I am sure you will prevent yourself from terribly intense pain of regret in future.
Enjoy days always ahead in mindful sensitivity towards disciplined behaviours.
16th September 2024 Dr.Ajawani's Happiness Clinic
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