Long back a mother came with her son who was retaliated his father because he felt that his father unnecessarily humiliated him in regard to his studies and career planning. This situation led the young man feel uninterested in his studies and indulging in undesirable hot arguments with the father. The mother felt sandwiched between the two being puzzled what to say and to whom?
The verbal communication is vital to survival and well being of human beings. Unfortunately communication itself is a major source of conflicts among people .There are some psychological facts about what to say ,how to say ,how much to say and whether say or not. The facts say that knowledge decides what to say ,skill decides how to say, attitude decides how much to say ,and wisdom decides whether to say or not. It is quite natural to predict that people who use their knowledge , skill, mindful attitude and foremost their wisdom while communicating with others there can never be conflict and misunderstanding among them. This will pay way to a prosocial society. It is to remind that for this ideal state every child must be trained in this regard .
So TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of mindful use of words . I am sure you will enjoy living in a prosocial society.
Enjoy days always ahead in true love for mindful use of words while communicating with others.
28th September, 2024 Dr.Ajawani's Happiness Clinic
Comments