If we observe phenomenon of relationship people find infinite excuses to feel or get separated emotionally and/or physically. The fact is , it is practically impossible that every person will be happy after meeting us.The reasons may inherent in the person himself, our abilities to make him happy and the particular situation we are meeting with emotions and expectations from each other. Just an hour before a received a call from an hurt mother who had perceived bitter conversation with her own son who is truely a gem. Before I could soothe her she cut the phone off. All the efforts to call the son too went in vein.
This is a common scenario even in intensely loving relationships like this of mother and son . We shall learn to control our impulse with empathetic mind before we speak any word .It is the core ability in binding loving relationships with deep love . We must be careful in our mind all the time that nobody shall feel hurt meeting us atleast if we can not make them happy.
So TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of being an empathetic person with genuine effort not to make any one feel hurt while meeting you. Rather try lovingly to make them feel happy . Remember this is core ability of establishing and continuing vital loving relationships.
Enjoy days always ahead with mindful loving interactions with people meeting you in day to day life.
1st June ,2024 Dr.Ajawani's Happiness Clinic
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