one almost invariable prescription I give to my all couple clients during marital counseling and that is, resolve the conflicts raised on the day before going to bed .No doubt it is equally potential prescription in all case of conflicts in any other relationships also.Conflicts leading to hot arguments is not uncommon in marital relationship.Since most of the husband's come late evening and if unfortunately any conflict issue is raised in the family, the consequent hot arguments are stretched and remain unresolved even while going to sleep without saying "good night " with a loving hug. And if so happens, the coming morning next day will never be a welcoming "good morning" and in very unfortunate conditions this may extend to a very long period ,and may leave a life-long sours in the minds of involved persons which further deteriorates the quality of life of the couples. A vicious cycle of unfortunate sequence is established . Another important fact of life is its uncertainty, that is, no one knows whether the next morning they may not be able to see faces of each other due to unfortunate demise of one spouse. So many people don't get chance next day to see each other. Since it is a part of life, we all must consider this critical fact and learn to consider all disputes settled before going to sleep. I love to say"even before going for the dinner" so that the next morning breakfast shall be a sweet one.
So TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of settling the dispute ,if any, of the day essentially before joining at dinner or going to bed.
Enjoy days always ahead in true love for peace of mind by resolving daily aroused conflicts before the end of the day.
5th October,2023 Dr. Ajawani's Happiness Clinic
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