My clinical experience tells me and off course it is a well known observed fact that if any couple find it very hard or impossible to continue their marital relationship, then one crucial thing is going on between the two invariably. And that is one person or both of them are indulged in very toxic behavior towards another person or towards each other. This toxic behaviour is perceived as vomiting poison by the victim to the extent of getting depression or sometimes suicidal ideations and in some critical condition suicide attempt too out of frustration in living with such a toxic spouse.
The Shiva Tatva in love emphasizes that at no cost any of the person in relationship shall vomit poison on another person in relationship. It is true for all relationships, though I have quoted marital relationship only which is much more pronounced example in modern scenario due to several factors. Increasing numbers of broken relationships and divorce witness my verdict.
If both the persons involved in marital relationship show patience and courage to accept anything perceived odds instead of triggering oneself to indulge in toxic behavior, Shiv Tatva will emerge in the relationship and both the persons will taste the nectar(Amrit) to make their relationship a pious and loving one.
So TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of keeping patience and commitment to continue relationship with Shiv Tatva. Be sure love will emerge as the Amrit, the nectar in your relationships.
Enjoy days always ahead in true love for Shiv Tatva in your all relationships.
19th April, 2023 Dr. Ajawani's Psychologist HAPPINESS CLINIC
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