While talking about self-actualization Lord Buddha emphasized on seeking mental peace and happiness as the ultimate goal of human life. He preached about the ways how the humans can seek their this ultimate goal. The knowledge about it is termed at self-actualization. HH Dalai lama also followed the same understanding. Looking at the present scenarios I personally feel two wrong and/or perverted ways through which some persons erroneously try to feel happy. The first way is indulging in behaviours with a view to please everyone which is truly a myth. Its deadly impossible to please everyone around us. Another is a perverted sadistic view of seking happiness by hurting others.
The real happiness and thus self-actualization, can only be sought by genuine hearty thoughts and attempts to avoid hurting any one. The old wisdom also says, " Life is not about pleasing every one. It's about hurting no one."
So TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of avoiding hurting anyone. I am sure you will self-actualize yourself through seeking true inner happiness and peace of mind.
Enjoy days always ahead in true love for 'no hurt state' for all other beings.
28th April, 2023 Dr. Ajawani's Psychologist HAPPINESS CLINIC
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