My yesterday's post was also on forgiveness. Today I will emphasize on one of the criteria of true forgiveness. And this is unconditional forgiveness. Long back one of the readers raised his doubt on unconditional aspect of any positive psychological phenomenon. He said it is an impossible term to apply. My experiences in my clinic and those of great saints and of modern psychologists too clearly stamp it right to find its benefits to both the persons, one who is forgiving and who is seeking forgiveness in terms of great inner peace of mind and true happiness. I just want to say the said reader that if you want to test your forgiveness on the criterion of unconditional then he has to consider his thought of forgiving a person with guilt as his child, himself as a parent and then check how healthy and powerful his child is.
The Nature also provides a wonderful example of unconditional forgiveness. So many flowers give sweet fragrance only when those are being crushed.
As I had written in one of my earlier posts, forgiving oneself with determination of not hurting anyone further is also an example of unconditional forgiving.
So TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of forgiving a person with proven guilt unconditionally. I am sure you will find fragrance in terms of peace of mind and happiness in your life.
Enjoy days always ahead in true love for unconditional forgiveness.
2nd May, 2023 Dr. Ajawani's Psychologist HAPPINESS CLINIC
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