Its no doubt that most of humans miseries occur just because of their rigid behaviour. Right from smallest unit of family to at large global level conflicts and maladaptations are mostly due to stubbornness or rigid mind state of persons involved in relationships. Everyone of us observe this unfortunate situations around themselves in behaviour of family members, politicians, global leaders leading to devastating results like broken families, community violence, wars etc.. Irony is that the stubborn person always consider oneself as the only right person and rejects every genuine advises given to him or her. Even more, such rigid person takes it guaranteed that the genuine advisor is his/her worst enemy. This mental state of such person creates an autocratic behaviour and deprives himself from enjoying social harmony and inner happiness too.
In contrast, an humble person very easily adapt even with critical situations and remains unperturbed and thus able to enjoy social harmony and inner happiness. A Hindi poet has rightly written that, " Andhiyan hasrat se aapana sir patkti rah gayin, bach gaye wo ped jinme hunar tha jhukane ka." In one of my old post I had also tried to explain this phenomenon of the NATURE by describing conversation between grass and a big tree before and after the storm .
So TRAIN YOUR MIND to remain in positive orientation of remaining humble and flexible in your attitude and behavior even in critical situations. I am sure you will enjoy social harmony and inner happiness.
Enjoy days always ahead with your genuine humbleness and love for social harmony.
23rd April, 2023 Dr. Ajawani's Psychologist HAPPINESS CLINIC
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